AN INTRODUCTION TO MASTURBATION

masturbation

/ˌmastəˈbeɪʃn/

noun

stimulation of the genitals with the hand for sexual pleasure.

MRS. LIZ ADDERLEY: Pleasure Advocate & Owner of Eve’s Garden

Masturbation

Eve’s Garden  carries a wide variety of masturbation toys.  Many designed by women, after all we know our bodies or we should.

I suggest to my customers pleasure toys for themselves because its important “to keep your plumbing working” lol

An orgasm releases endorphins which are one of the substances made in the body that can relieve pain and give a feeling of well-being.  It gives you that AAAHHH moment.  Its not dirty, its perfectly normal.  We should encourage our daughters,  girlfriends, to feel that they can talk openly about self pleasure.

Finding out what your pleasure zones are, what pressure do you like, tapping on the clitoris, massaging, circles with your fingers, caressing.

Even talking to yourself while masturbating set up a scenario in your mind, you deserve all the pleasure your body can give you.

Lubricants are great for masturbation especially if you are massaging the clitoral area with a vibrator, some of the toys on the market these days are very powerful, so for your comfort use lube!!!!  You want a tender coochie not a blister LOL

Remember to make sure you are using the correct lube for the toy.  Silicone lube and silicone toys should not be used together.  Use water based lube with a silicone toy.

The great thing now is that these toys are small, discreet,  compact, multi speed and are great for traveling.
 

ONYX: Pleasure Advocate & Sex Witch

Masturbation is Solo Pleasure. The Stigma behind touching yourself for solo pleasure’s sake has always confused me. I never understood the “sin”. The “shunning”. To touch yourself, is to know yourself. When we enter this world, we enter it as explorers. Humans are naturally curious, and self pleasing. 

As a Sex Witch, my connection to my pleasure is what I use to truly understand what I desire. Desire is born from a knowledge of Pleasure. To know what and how to bring yourself pleasure is an important part of Self Care [self love, and self compassion]. To be so Free with yourself and so open and honest about what it means to truly feel pleasure. Orgasms brought on by Self Pleasure are offerings of true desire upon the altar that is your Divine Path.

As a Pleasure Advocate I say this, Own Your Pleasure! Yes, Masturbation is defined as solo SEXUAL pleasure. But Pleasure can be found in many intimate ways. And if the next step on your “soft life” path just happens to start with your fingers touching your places of erotic pleasure, I ADVOCATE FOR THIS. Please, for the sake of True Self Pleasure, Masturbate. (and stop being so scared of Lube. Stop the Lube shaming)

Some Clitoral Stimulating Toy Suggestions from Liz:

WOMANIZER CLASSIC 2 $261

Vibratex: Magic Wand Micro $133

Svakom PULSE LITE NEO $73

VeDo: Vino $98

VeDO KITTI $102

BLUSH: Oh My Gem $120

BLUSH: Limited Addiction $68

And the Simple and easy Go-To: a bullet (also known as an egg because of the shape)

Slim Teardrop Bullet $12  

3-Speed Bullet Vibrator $12

Blush B Yours Power Bullet with Remote Control $16

Scene Idea/Masturbation Meditation by ONYX